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      <image:caption>Downtown Charlotte as we left the NICU after Jonathan's shunt placement.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>An excited Tyler waiting to welcome his little brother home.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Tyler and Jonathan in the room just off the NICU floor.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>2011 Folly Beach Family photo, less than four weeks before Jonathan arrived.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I photographed this tree dozens of times on this trip.  In retrospect, it seems the tree was the perfect parallel to our life at the time. An isolated, but strong existence, holding its ground in spite of the wind, sun, and salt air.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A photo from our session with a photographer that donates her own time to photograph maternity and birth events involving pregnancies with a negative prognosis.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>www.carecalendar.org CareCalendar is the original free website to organize meals and other help for families in need during a time of illness or life changing event, such as the birth of a baby or death of a family member.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>www.benotafraid.net Be Not Afraid (BNA) is a private non-profit corporation whose mission is to provide support to parents experiencing a prenatal diagnosis and carrying to term. BNA achieves this mission utilizing a multi-faceted approach.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org NILMDTS trains, educates, and mobilizes professional quality photographers to provide beautiful heirloom portraits to families facing the untimely death of an infant. We believe these images serve as an important step in the family's healing process by honoring the child's legacy.</image:caption>
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